Author: Ronnie J

“I want to be more social, but I often feel like I have nothing to talk about. I only play video games and watch TV, and nobody cares. How do I find hobbies so I can actually relate to people?” – C Kush The Importance of Hobbies Hobbies and interests are an important part of leading a fulfilling life. Not only do they help define…

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I remember being 18. I was out into the world, with barely any belongings, no friends, and very socially underdeveloped. Even though I had no friends, I was desperate to make friends, so I encouraged myself to be outgoing when I was in social situations. In a way, I was very brave. From there, I was thrown into many new social situations, which overwhelmed my…

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I was recently at a work function. I happened to be put on a table with other people my age. All of them were couples and I was the only single person. I had nothing in common with them: I was single, while they were engaged/married/married with kids. They were discussing buying homes while I still rent a tiny place that I barely bother to…

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“I’m trying to help my daughter find friends. She is so very unhappy. All she does is go to work, come home and watch TV. She has no life at all. It is her 38th birthday today and even family haven’t bothered. We all live together as we put a deposit on a property and she pays the mortgage. It leaves very little money for…

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Podcast #3 My Experience with Group Therapy This week, I share my experience with Group Therapy, a method of psychotherapy that involves not just you and a psychologist, but you and an entire group of people sharing thoughts, feelings, and similar problems. 1. I will explain what group therapy is 2. I will tell you how I personally got involved with group therapy 3. I…

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Do you want to know a secret? A secret to gaining the life and control over your life that you want for yourself? The secret is this: It’s not going to happen with you sitting at your computer browsing Reddit. My Own Experiences with Expanding Comfort Zones Now, you might think I am talking conceptually, when you yourself need real, actionable advice. But it is…

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With the introduction of the internet, many websites have revolutionized our lives. For those with shyness or social anxiety, the best website that has been invented is Meetup.com. Meetup.com is a website that let’s people organize social groups and events, usually around common interests or activities. Popular interests or activities found on Meetup.com include: technology interest entrepreneurship hiking foodies (people who enjoy trying and critiquing new…

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